As leaders, we’ve all been there – excelling in our roles, mastering organizational systems, and striving for perfection. But when it comes to leading teams, our well-intentioned desire to help can often lead to a “let me do it for you” mindset. This rescuing mentality, while seemingly helpful, can ultimately hinder our team members’ growth and potential.

Rescuing vs. Coaching

Rescuing involves:

– Taking control and doing tasks yourself

– Solving problems yourself due to pressing deadlines

– Less tolerance for people who take time to complete tasks.

Coaching involves:

– Allow safe space for team members to discover their potential.

– Encouraging problem-solving and learning

– Empowering growth and development through accepting less “perfect” work

The Consequences of Rescuing

– Creates dependency and lack of initiative

– Stifles innovation and creativity

– Fosters a culture of mediocrity

– Leads to burnout and decreased job satisfaction

Practical Tips for Leaders:

1. Self-reflection: Recognize your tendency to rescue and make a conscious effort to shift towards coaching.

2. Ask open-ended questions: Encourage team members to think critically and find solutions.

3. Provide guidance, not answers: Support team members in finding their solutions.

4. Emphasize learning over perfection: Foster a growth mindset and celebrate progress.

By adopting a coaching mindset, you’ll empower your team members to excel, build confidence, and drive success. Remember, your role is to coach, not rescue.

– Supriya Pujari

Supriya Pujari is a Life and Leadership coach Passionate about making a difference through coaching with clarity.

visit www.supriyapujari.com/About

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